Achebe states, “Okonkwo was deeply grieved. And it was not just a personal grief. He mourned for the clan, which he saw breaking up and falling apart, and he mourned for the warlike men of Umuofia, who had so unaccountably become soft like women” (183). Okonkwo was so unsettled that the villagers became soft like women, Umuofia did not stand up for themselves to the missionaries like Okonkwo hoped. Okonkwo was all about showing strength within his village but seeing his village after being converted made him upset in seeing no masculinity or strength within the people.
In Things Fall Apart Okonkwo changes from diligent, to sad, to worried. Okonkwo was a hard working and respected man to the villagers, who worked day and night on his farm to show masculinity. After Ikemefuna's death Okonkwo became depressed, he had to kill Ikemefuna for sacrifice to the gods and to not show fear or weakness. When Okonkwo returned from his exile he was unsettled with the fact that the villagers converted to Christianity. Imperialism not only affects the country targeted but also the surrounding countries along with the individuals