Let’s call my ex-step-dad Bob. Bob was similar to Sarah. Always had to be in control, made me think things that weren’t my fault were, and he was emotionally abusive. Whenever I was around Bob I would be afraid to be me. I was afraid to say what I thought. I was afraid to upset him. I was afraid to be around him, I still am. Whenever I did something, Bob would tell me I was doing it wrong. One time I had made my bed. It was a twin bed and three of the four sides was against a wall. I had put a queen sized quilt on my bed. There were a lot of wrinkles in the quilt, because it was made for a queen bed. Bob had come into my room to make sure I had made my bed. When he saw my bed, he yelled at me. He said I need to make the quilt straight, I need to tuck the edges under my mattress, he need to be able to drop a nickel on the bed and have it bounce back into his hand. Bob would only point out what was wrong with what I did. He just needed to make sure I had made my bed, and he told me it was wrong. Before my mother married him, the way I had made my bed was perfectly fine. But not to Bob. Everything needed to be done exactly his way, and if it wasn’t, it was wrong. The way Bob treated me and my siblings, impacted all of us. I’m so glad Bob is out of my …show more content…
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