My Independence Narrative

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From the moment I came out of the womb I have been independent. Ask almost anyone in my family and they will tell you the exact same thing. From the age of three I was trying to provide for myself, making my own breakfast, going outside by myself, I have always had a sense of independence. Though my independence was always striving as I got older, it did give me some major set backs. Most of the time I didn’t fit in with everyone else so I felt like I had to try extremely hard to make sure I had friends. However, in the 7th grade my independence was challenged. In 2012 my step-father committed suicide. This trial devastated my family, my mother went into a depression. I was the only one who could attempt to provide for my family. Though I didn’t get a job …show more content…
In each of those years I had to undergo surgery. Though they weren’t anything major they did prohibit me from being so independent. My first surgery in 2014 was done on my left ankle. I had torn cartilage in my ankle and it required surgery. They went in and cut the torn cartilage out and drilled several holes into my ankle bone. I was in a cast for several months and I was pretty much immobile. During this time I started to feel like my independence was dwindling. I had to have special arrangements for my transportation, I was confined to my bed or the couch for a majority of the time, and I couldn’t go do something when I wanted to. Even a simple task like using the restroom became increasingly difficult. A year after I originally broke my ankle, I broke my toe. Normally a break in a toe wouldn’t be too much of a concern but, the way my toe was broken it wouldn’t heal back correctly. This time around it wasn’t as bad as my first go around though I did retain some of the immobility from my previous break. This experience taught me that sometimes in life you won’t be able to do everything by yourself however, you can always make the best of a