This comes as a surprise, especially considering the fact that the intention of the author is to portray the Duke in a negative light. However, as one reads the poem, it becomes clear that primary reason behind the Duke’s unhappiness with his first wife was due to the fact that his late wife was rather carefree and unprofessional: “Too easily impressed; she liked whate’er/She looked on, and her looks went everywhere” (23-24). The Duke also complains that his wife did not pay enough respect to his “gift of a nine-hundred-years-old name” (33-34). While these lines appear to be criticizing the Duke’s controlling nature, an unintentional message sent forth by this implies that had the Duke’s wife been more obedient, they would have had a “successful” marriage; suggesting that wives should be just mere obedient slaves to their …show more content…
While one might consider this to be yet another instance of the Duke’s shameless bragging, this reference can be viewed as the Duke “taming” his wife; suggesting that men would be happy with a wife who is very much like a trained horse. This is no doubt some very dangerous advice as this would give men an excuse to overpower their wives, while many women will become overly submissive to ensure the success of their marriages; resulting dysfunctional marriages where the men would wield too much power, while the women are powerless and have no voice. Unfortunately, these kinds of marriages are already common throughout the