Reading Damasio’s “Self Comes to Mind”, I began to find the answer to a question that had puzzled me: “Why do some people have disproportionate reactions to insignificant events?”, and to understand the complex intertwining of emotions and feelings involved. Thus, by realising the difference between the trigger and the comeback and responding rationally rather than merely reacting to stimuli, people can achieve a healthier psychological equilibrium. The course also made me think about the significance of parental reflective functioning, and I realised that it is crucial for parents to first understand their own feelings and only afterwards mirror them to the