As a black female, I was always told to push myself as hard as possible. My mother taught me at an early “ When anyone takes a step forward, you take five steps forward". I never understood that statement. Why do I need to do extra work? If someone takes a step forward, Shouldn't I do the same? When I finally got to college, I understood why I was taught to take those extra steps. For four years, I was tested on how I can survive in the