It is very frustrating to play against these players, and the most common way out is to just cheat back. This is the method that many (not all) coaches and parents tell their players, including mine. However, whenever I get cheated, I just think back to the philosophy given to me by the man in India. If my opponent is a cheater, he will keep cheating, and if I play fair, I should keep playing fair. If he didn’t change his ways, why would I change mine? This is how I try to “stay gold” as long as I