It makes me think of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (Taormina, 2013) and how it related with me and my family in my childhood and now in life. In my childhood, we were still at the bottom. Our physiological needs were being met, we had food, shelter and a warm home to come home too. But out safety needs were not being met. I never felt truly save because of the abuse that we all constantly inured. Discussing issues and discovering my sense of self was never important because my needs weren’t all being met. There were people in my life that I felt I could go to and where I felt I belonged, but that didn’t come until later in my teen years around the time of my father’s death. These people were not in my home and did not show up until later in life. I did feel love from my parents but once I became aware of how wrong what was happening in our home I didn’t feel that sense of belonging. After the feeling of belonging on the hierarchy is esteem needs. This is something I didn’t feel until I was out of the home and it is probably the most difficult spot in the hierarchy for me to thing about getting to, even today. Because there was so much long lasting abuse in our home, I didn’t have a sense of worth. How could I? I know that my mother and father loved me but they were in a battle with themselves for a completely different reason. I had someone who is a state of drunkenness deliberately tried to damage my …show more content…
My mom was open about our own finances and the struggles we went through getting by. I wasn’t aware until later in life of how much class in society varied and why it did. It was something I didn’t give much thought too. I feel that it is something children should be aware existent because it can motivate them to make change in society or strive to be in a class that they feel is fit for them. With my own children I want to educate them on the classes because I want them to always have what they need and I want them to never wonder where their next meal will come from. If children have no sense or value of class they will not know where they should strive to lie in that class. To some it may not be an issue that is very important, but to me and many others it is so important to be aware. Growing up we were in a lower class, and I wasn’t aware of this until later in life. Those living in the lower class have a chronic sense of stress. As I’ve recently studied, when you are exposed to chronic stress there is more at stake than just the present need, it can affect your health drastically if you function in a high state of self. I am thankful that I became self aware and motivated myself to get out of the chronic stress my family was exposed to. For that, I have my mother to thank, she was driven and got out of the situation in our life where we were exposed to chronic