Roots Of Optimism Research Paper

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Where are my roots of optimism? I mean it, I don’t know where they are. I swear I left them on the kitchen counter. Well, I guess I’m going to have to retrace my steps to find them.

Let's start at the beginning, around 2008, where possibly one of the biggest things in my life happened. My parents decided to get a divorce. By now it's not that big of a deal since everyone and their cat’s parents are divorced, according to apa.org around 40%-50% of married people get divorced, but it still taught me a lesson to accept that change and adapt to it. My mother has custody over me and I still get to see my father, but I know that it will never be the same. At least there are a lot of kids like me and I have a lot of people to talk to, and a lot of people can talk to me. I know that no matter what happens to my parents that they love
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Let's fast-forward to a few years later, where another huge thing happened to me. Separately, two beautiful girls came into the world, my extremely intelligent cousins Eden and Jadzia. Jadzia was born a few years before Eden, so that made her a sassy big sister. Now, I respect and love them like sisters, because they are the sisters I never had, but when I was younger, that was a different story. I was the most jealous little brat around them, because they were younger than me. I needed all of the spotlight on me at all times. If I could have met younger me, I would have smacked her in the face for her greed. But anyway, over time I realised that I couldn’t be mean to them because they were like my sisters. And soon they would need that sisterly-like support. Today I am so proud of them for excelling in grade school after being homeschooled all their life, they have all A’s in their classes and they are more clever than I could ever be, even though Eden is seven and Jadzia is ten. I will always love my cousins and I hope they will always love