Such misunderstanding is often formed by the misinterpretation in everyday conversations (Perger 18). It is all due to different gender styles in doing things. It is generally true that men try to provide interesting information which often is not exciting to women to impress them during the conversation. It is also true that women tend to listen supportively without suggesting the change of topic even if the current topic bore them a lot. Often, they do not get what they look for in a conversation, resulting in mutual accusations and dissatisfaction. By lecturing and listening, a perfect conversation, an interactive dialog of men and women soon becomes a simple, boring, unstoppable monolog of men (Brown 436). By learning each other’s differences, men should know that women do not want to listen to long boring lectures and women should know that they do not always have to listen and all they need to do is to suggest a change in topic of mutual interest. For this reason, men do have to try so hard to gain the attention of women by lecturing them. Similarly, women do not have to listen attentively to be loved by men. Besides, men are not obliged to talk less like women so as to create new friendships with women nor need do women speak a lot like men to be in the same hierarchy of friends with them. There is really no need for them to try all that because that will only worsen the situation by causing even deeper the misunderstanding. For this reason, the are only required to get what they want is to keep mutual interest, respect, and understanding in mind. It is that