Do our parents know about life more than we do, or do they know what is good or bad for us? Do we agree that adolescents have the right to choose their way of living? These kinds of questions lead us to think a lot about our life; especially when we have been young. Everyone in this life has the right to choose how he wants to live his life, but no matter what it is, it supposed to be a good life that falls into success, happiness, and comfort. In this short story, “Where are you going, where have you been?” Joyce Carol Oates introduces us to Connie and her family. Connie lives with her mother, father, and her older sister June. Connie’s father is absent mentally and emotionally, and her mother is always trying to compare her to her older sister. Beauty is everything to Connie; in addition, Connie’s friends are very …show more content…
In addition, families should take full responsibilities to children and watch them all the time because teenagers can sometimes become very difficult to understand; especially these kind of ages because we are living in this bad word, which is fall with many bad people that surrounding us from everywhere. Therefore, parents should have to take care of their children because most of the teenagers do not know how to make the right choices in their life, and these things could cause a lot of side effects on most of them. As we see in this story that, Connie does not know how to make the right choices in her life, and that will be causing her to fall in the most dangerous problems that girls fall in most of the time; especially at her age. Everything has changed in Connie’s life, the destroying of her daydream and the big worst event that happened with her made her feel scared from life, and she is not being able to defend herself, and the surrender is the only