Throughout the story, there are many comparisons between realism and dream-like situations. Oats uses many types of rhythms in her story, which shows her comparison with real-life events and dreamlike situations. This can be used in a bigger discussion of the topic to show the methods Oate’s uses to make her story. Adding comparisons to real-life/past events leaves readers intrigued and way more interested. This piece of writing can also be used to keep in mind all the details that prove that Connie was possibly in a dreamlike state. Quirk, Tom. I love it. “A Source For “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” Studies in Short Fiction; Newberry, S.C. Vol. 18, Iss.