Readers can see that the mother is only looking out for her child. another reason that the mother might be so strict with Connie is because the mother sees a little bit of her child hood and now as an adult she regrets the decisions that she made as a child so now Connie is behaving in a way that the mother used and the mother does not want Connie to go through the same experiences but Connie does not know this so there will always conflict and the mother thinks she is doing Connie a favor while Connie sees it as