Social Misfit

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As a person whose life can be described as both blessed and turbulent, I pride myself on overcoming many obstacles and still finding the strength and ability to consistently be my authentic self as a mother, student, and social misfit. Motherhood was an identity that was unexpectedly bestowed upon me in the summer of 2013 with the birth of my oldest daughter. Regardless of the circumstances, I have adapted well to the role and thoroughly enjoy being the nurturing caretaker that my, now totaling four, children require of me. In contrast, the chosen identity that I adopted for myself is that of being a student. While some hear the term and think strictly of a time-bound identity related to formal education, I personally view life as a continuous …show more content…
Nevertheless, I take pride in maintaining a welcoming and considerate mindset where everyone has their own respected perspective on life. As is the reality for all social identities, being a mother, student and social misfit is subject to its own implicit biases. The biases that many mothers face in society oftentimes revolve around parenting styles. This includes, but is not limited to, differences in opinion of how children should be raised as well as whether mothers should be present in the home full-time as caretakers and nurturers or enter the workforce to contribute to the home financially. Ultimately, the decision on which path to follow is based on the needs of the family and personal preference. Consequently, too often are women swayed toward one choice or the other based on the biases present in their lives. Similarly, being a student is susceptible to the negativity of societal prejudices. Some may experience such biases based on their ethnic background and up-bringing, leaving them to believe that being a student and doing so successfully is not an achievable …show more content…
Unfortunately, this can often lead to rifts in relationships ranging from personal to professional, as some cannot comprehend how an individual can remain open-minded and impartial to all. Regardless of the social identities a person classifies themselves as, they are all subject to implicit biases. Nevertheless, it is the strength and resilience of an individual that determines their ability to remain authentic to themselves and defines how they are affected. The five core principles of social justice are ideologies in which the purpose is to create a just and inclusive society. Foremost, the view of ensuring that all of society is provided with rights to essential resources such as healthcare, food, housing, and education is represented by the core principle: access. Moreover, equity refers to the stance that everyone has access to the required essential resources for their specific needs regardless of their circumstances and background; ultimately eliminating disparities caused by historical and systematic