He argues that because biologically speaking, men and women are vastly different to one another, the sexes are almost from different planets (venus and mars) which supports the contrast of traits between men and women. Next, invisibility of privilege occurs when men or white people aren’t fully aware of the advantages they have simply because of their race or gender, people who don’t completely comprehend their privilege become become defensive because they feel that their sense of entitlement has diminished when women or people of color obtain a position of power. Kimmel defines masculinities and femininities as characteristics related to men (dominant) and women (submissive). The author describes emphasized femininity as a complement to Kimmel’s definition of hegemonic masculinity with is used to “accommodate the interests and needs of men”