3. Both Goffman and Cooley seem to suggest that persons’ identities are shaped by how they want others to see them. Explain what they mean, and then comment on the extent to which you agree/disagree with them. Both Goffman and Cooley seem to suggest that persons’ identities are shaped by how they want others to see them and although they both coined different terms to describe this, they are both supportive of very similar ideas. Goffman coined the phrase “dramaturgy,” and believed that how a person acts is dependent upon the impression that they want to make to the particular person(s) that they are with or associating with. The way we act can change depending on what social situation or group we find ourselves with. Similarly to Goffman, Cooley had corresponding beliefs and coined the phrase “looking glass self,” to get his point across. He believed that we look to others to determine what we “look like.” More specifically a person will take cues from whomever they are interacting with and adapt to how they think that person wants them to be. Both sociologists firmly believed that a person’s identity is shaped on how they want someone else to see them. I think that I agree with both Goffman and Cooley to a certain extent. For example, I was conversing with a co-worker about everyday things and the subject of his family, more specifically his brother came up. Now his family is from a very small town in Upstate New York where there’s one stop light and everybody knows your business just to give some background. After high school and college, his brother moved away and got this unbelievable job making $500,000 a year, and lives quite comfortably in a New York City suburb. Recently, he was home for the holidays and was back to his roots drinking Natural Ice beer and hanging out in the woods. He had a conversation with his brother about how it is two different worlds that he lives in, and when he is out with co-workers or anything work related he wouldn’t be caught dead with anything but high end top shelf liquor in his hand because he had a certain role to play and status to maintain. As soon as he told me