“"Speaking of Courage" was written in 1975 at the suggestion of Norman Bowker, who three years later hanged himself in the locker room of a YMCA in his hometown in central Iowa” (O’Brien 149). This quote describes the pain and suffering after war. Norman Bowker could not live normally after war and was not happy. In response, he committed suicide. This is the ultimate changing of people, death. If Bowker was not drafted, he most likely would have lived a happy life and died peacefully at old age. This normal life is far from committing suicide at a young age, leaving family and friends. It is heartbreaking to see that war changes a person so much that they feel that suicide is the only option. In “Soldier’s Home,” Krebs also has to deal with complications after the war. Krebs got into an argument with his mother after he returned. Krebs eventually got upset with his mother after she wanted him to get things done and to restart his life. Krebs got so upset that he said, “I don’t love anybody.” This upset Krebs’s mother and she ended up crying. Krebs eventually apologized but he is still not the same person after the war. Both Bowker and Krebs will never live the same life after their war with Bowker dead and Krebs has harsh relations with his