The themes that are in the novel are in everyday life for everyone, because everyone has a story, or had a life-changing event, or an embarrassing moment in their life. Though the situations are not all similar or as serious as Tim O’Brien’s are, they are still all moments that people go through in life. With themes as powerful as these are there will always be one character in a book that embodies them like Tim does. The Things They Carried shows how much a soldier goes through from beginning to end, and that even before the actual war, they have had battles in their life. Everyone in life struggles and has to overcome them like Tim O’Brien does, but not in the same way as him like he does through stories and looking back on his