Reading the poem aloud and listening to every sound exposes the genius of the intricate arrangement. Not only with sounds does Hayden dramatize the relationship between a father and a child, but also by allusions. For example, by beginning the poem with the word “Sundays,” the poet makes a reference to the father-son relationship of God the Father and God the …show more content…
The speaker’s anger and frustration with the father is present in the first two stanzas. However, the use of the past tense suggests that the speaker has reached a new outlook on his relationship with his father and reveals an appreciation for all the father has done. Finally in the last stanza, the speaker begins to realize how dependent he used to be on his father and this image captures the speaker’s new appreciation for the father’s self-sacrifice or “parental” love for the child. The internal conflict of the speaker shown in the rhetorical question, “What did I know, what did I know of love’s austere and lonely offices?”, shows his resentfulness of not appreciating his father’s love. All encompassing, the poet stresses sonic devices and colloquial diction in his poem to convey the relationship between the father and the speaker and the conflicts in their