Palo Alto University
Colleen M. Jones
Understanding Identity through ‘Respectful’ Framework
No one ever told me I was ‘Privileged.’ Apparently I have the privilege of being totally unaware of my privilege. Through my very brief time in this Multicultural Studies course I have already come to learn about these ignored but very real privileges. During a lecture we discussed an article, Peggy McIntosh's 1988 now-famous piece, White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack, while I did not seem to have a real alarming response to reading this article, out loud, in class, in front of everybody – inside I cringed with embarrassment and guilt for being a white female. It is …show more content…
The first picture that comes to mind when thinking about my sexual identity is a ‘traditional’ 1950’s family structure and view of gender roles and expectations. While my first reaction is to think I do not identify with any of the 50’s women characteristics, I actually do. Women were supposed to fulfill certain roles, such as being a nurturing and present mother, an attentive homemaker, and a dutiful wife. I could see myself falling into those roles because it was what was socially acceptable to American culture during that era. I am trying to picture what being gay might look like during that time period and what comes to mind is utter despair and hopelessness. That time must have been scarred with complete self-loathing due to society's attitudes for anyone who was outside of the norm. After much hardship the LGBTQ community has prevailed, but it is still hard, harder than my straight identity that has been accepted and cherished by American culture since the beginning of time. While I am able to walk through my day without worry or fear of society judging my sexual identity – it has taken a conscious effort to be empathetic towards others that are perhaps less ‘privileged’ than I and I am forever grateful for the individuals who have implored that …show more content…
In other words, it gives one privilege in a number of things, such as easier access to social, political, and educational institutions. It also helps one avoid embarrassment and mockery of one’s speech. Language privilege also intersects with privileges of sexual identity, class, and race which is a great example of how an existing privilege can build upon multiple privileges creating an end-all jackpot of the privilege lottery. Imagining for a moment what life might be like if I had to take a driving exam in a language that I was just learning seems incredibly intimidating. English speakers travel, work and live all over the world and other countries accommodate them. English harbors so much power behind it that most countries learn it as their second language. With my first and only language learned being English I have felt a frustration at times from non-native speaking individuals because I could not communicate effectively with them. This perpetuates a sense of self-righteousness regarding language which is really sad and embarrassing that I feel that way at