So when Finny fell from the stairs and broke his legs and died during surgery, Gene did not cry he felt as if a part of him died because he was insecure and wanted to be Finny not himself. At the funeral he did not shed a single tear because he thought he died along with Finny and it was also his funeral. Gene had a almost codependent relationship with Finny because he wanted to be like him and not himself and Finny wanted to live out his dreams through Gene so they used each other for support not for friendship. Also they both are the same height and were good at sports till Finny fell from the tree. The boys are mostly different but in some ways the