First: One would seek to develop a counseling relationship based on love, while striving to become proficient in the knowledge and use of basic counseling techniques. Also, by showing evidence of a Christ’s character, by displaying a demeanor that reflects the fruit of the Holy Spirit in one’s life, as well as their lives (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002, 202).
By demonstrating a variety of well-trained communication skills, that allow an opportunity to rely on one’s consistent intense study, in active listening, attending, probing, and summarizing effectively, in an empathetic manner (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002, …show more content…
Consequently, by doing this the client is able to acknowledge the need to change, find the desire to do so, and take steps toward growth and development, while continuing the empathy process.
Third: In realizing the need to keep trying to get it right by continuing to reflect back on what the client is professing as the problem, one would began at this point to take notice if empathy is taking place when the clients’ disclosure begins to make sense (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002, 215). At this stage, one would enter the client’s world and understands what the client is experiencing from his and her perspective (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002, 215). The summary of one’s perspective of the clients’ perspectives would be stated (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002, 215).
Fourthly, after discovering the intent of the clients’ is to work on their marriage, in order to stay together and have a happy family in the near future, one would facilitate and support them as they accept personal responsibility for positive change (Clinton and Ohlschlager, 2002,