Assertion is most relevant in situations where people must resolve a problematic interpersonal situation where personal preferences are weighed against those of the other partner (Spitzberg, Canary, & Cupach, 1994). You need to always protect yourself from verbal abuse. Although it may be hard to do, try not to argue with your partner when she is being verbally abusive because it only escalates the abuse. If abuse is addressed early, interventions can be developed to reduce the impact of mental and physical health implications that come from it (Coker, Davis, Arias, Desari, Sanderson, Brandt, & Smith, 2012). Assertive behavior means standing up for your rights without denying the rights of your partner (Rubin & Martin, 2009). When you are assertive you are expressing your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in a direct, honest, and appropriate manner (Aldeis, 2017). When being assertive do not apologize for your feelings because this will lead to more stress and an even lower power status. Being assertive means much more than willing to communicate your feelings, it involves that you demand respect from your partner (Rubin & Martin, 2009). Without mutual respect amongst both people in the relationship, constructively overcoming conflict is not possible. Do not put your feelings and well-being on the backburner because you are afraid of how your partner will react to you expressing your concerns about her abusive behaviors. By putting yourself on the backburner, you are demonstrating a lack of concern for your own needs and it shows your partner that above all else, that her feelings are the only important ones in the relationship (Aldeis, 2017). Assertive behavior is more effective and productive when trying to resolve interpersonal conflict, compared to being passive or aggressive (Spitzberg, Canary, & Cupach,