The therapist may be coming from a place where she has worked with this patient for about a year and she wants to protect him. However, the therapist needs to self-reflect and find out why she wants to give the patient advice about his relationship. Finding out why the patient is allowing people to take advantage of him, should be a part of the therapist’s personal goal for herself. The therapist should thin, if she were to provide advice to the patient, how would that information land on him? I do not believe that the therapist would be helping the patient, because she could be enticing dependence and decreasing the patient’s