Externalizing Behavior Paper

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Externalizing behavior in children in layman’s terms, means the child acts in a negative and unpleasing way to the parent or caretaker. According to Brook, Lee, Finch, & Brown (2011), children externalize behavior because of poor parental monitoring and inconsistent discipline. This leads us to believe that poor parenting is a major factor in the reason why children lash out at their parents and misbehave. It should also be noted that bad behavior spans across three generations (Brook et al., 2011). Harsh parenting in one generation predicts harsh parenting and punishment in the next. If a child is externalizing in early childhood or adolescence, it is a precursor for externalizing in adulthood (Brook et al., 2011).
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