How Cancer Affects A Person's Life

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Everyone has experienced some type of speed bump in their lifetime. These speed bumps can either be a positive or negative thing. Cancer is the biggest speed bump that I have ever came across from and it has been the biggest impact on my life. My father was diagnosed with cancer when I was a little girl and everyday has not been the same since he has passed away. I can still feel my father with me at all times even if he is not with me in person. Cancer can and will alter a person’s life in a substantially negative way.
Cancer itself can be considered the bad and the ugly. When someone has been diagnosed with cancer, it is an exhausting phase. Every single thing you have to go through to try and eliminate the cancer, is draining. My father
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He did everything in his power to complete his task as a father and a loving friend. Not a single day went by that he made sure my brother and I had what we needed. My dad made such a huge impact on my entire family. Over the years of not having a father, I have become depressed. Losing someone as close as my dad was, I could not live my life the same. I grew up not having my birth dad, but a step dad and he wanted to act like my birth dad. No one will ever replace my best friend. My mom and my dad were never married, but they were always together to take care of me and my brother. As I was growing up, all my friends could do activities with their fathers. My dad and I would always go fishing or even feed the ducks outside his apartments. My dad would even take care of my best friend and he saw her as his own daughter. Adjusting without a parent is not the easiest thing I have ever done. In the future, I have to walk down the aisle without my dad being there. I recently just graduated high school and my dad was not there to celebrate with me. Everything I have ever done, has been for my dad. I do my best in everything I do to make sure it would make him proud. As well as being depressed, I never felt so lonely without my father with me. I always grew up as a daddy’s girl. I did not get to choose to live with my mom or my dad. I would always be with my dad even though I could not live with him. I spent every second I could with him. I could never get enough time with him since I did not know the last time I would see him would be. His departure has left a mark on me. I will never take advantage of someone or never take anyone for granted because I know what it is liked to lose someone suddenly. No one will know when someone’s time has come. He is not with me in reality, but his spirit will always be with me. It makes a difference when someone I truly love, is forever