No matter what the circumstance a person may encounter there is truly a sense of unconditional love. Little did Amir realize that the importance of family he was taught at a young age would play a significant role later in his life. Amir goes back for his best friend’s son, and takes him from a very bad situation. He risked a lot to do this, and he would not have done this if it were not for the fact that this boy was family to Amir. That put a completely new twist on things, and after Amir found that out, he knew he could not back down. All his life the Afghan culture had told Amir that family is first. Because of that, he was able to instantly make the situation that family indeed needed to come first. No matter what society one may live in, there is a constant pressure to be a part of a certain group. Family provides the comfort of being a part of something. This family setting will determine what type of person someone will become. In many cases, it is a family first situation. It has been a way of their culture since they can remember, and it will always be that way. The reason many cultures are able to keep this going is that everyone is taught and surround by this family first mentality beginning at a very young age. It is hard to get away from being surrounded by family in the Afghan community, which proves to not be a bad thing whatsoever. The constant surrounding of family will shape someone to become