Although my young brain was not developed enough to relive the horrid battles, years later I could still feel the stinging pain in my chest as I lie awake at night, wondering how it came to a sudden end. Divorce. How can one, simple word have such a powerful meaning? So powerful and common it could be mistaken for a disease, seeming to make its way through the world, knocking down anyone in its tracks. Unfortunately, I was one of the millions of children suffering through a divorce. I was only…
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scene; picture a family of five, as pleasant as could be, taking life one day at a time. Sounds nice so far, right? It gets worse from here. Now imagine that same family of five going down to a family of four. Why might you ask? Divorce, that’s why. Now, let reality seep into your imagination for a minute. That was my life, that’s what changed me. Growing up before my parent’s divorce, my siblings and I had a moderately comfortable life; occasionally when we did something wrong, we were punished for…
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her husband for 20 years, until the day he left her on their anniversary. After an argument so insignificant, her husband turns to his wife and says, “I want a divorce.”2 This wasn’t the first time divorce was brought up, but the first time one of them truly initiated it. The husband reveals to R. M. that he has already seen a lawyer. This shocks her as she thought their marriage could last even through the worst of times. “My husband and I weren't wildly mismatched. Neither of us cheated. We weren't…
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through a divorce Takeaway: Take care of the emotional stability of your children. Divorce: Protect your children I am a survivor of the war called divorce. It is not purely a physical war that takes place among the parents but an emotional conflict that happens inside of a child’s mind. The effects it can have on the psyche of a developing mind are incredible, having gone through it myself when I was growing up. For me, the war was drawn out for ten long grueling years. My world was…
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In 2012, statistics showed that 50 percent of marriages ended in divorce. Divorce is any formal separation of husband and wife according to established custom. Two years ago I was affected by this when my parents got a divorce. It was an extremely difficult age to experience such a tragic change in my life. My life before the divorce was like any other normal, happy family. We did almost everything together, from sporting events to church on Sunday mornings. Then all of a sudden all of this was nonexistent…
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Yukon Valley in the book The Call of the Wild. In contrast, my great grandmother was taken from the comfort of her own life the second she was told her parents were filing a divorce. Being excluded from school activities and being looked down upon by everyone she used to be friendly with was only half the pain she felt. Though the physical struggles between my great grandmother, Delores, and Buck are very different, they both went through a life changing…
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successful jobs, a better life and proud parents. People all over the world dream about coming to America to receive an education in the pursuit of the American dream: a better life. Many believe that pursing the American dream is worth risking their children and their own life for. Could it be because, we are all taught at an early age that acquiring a college degree would serve as the platform for a promising future? My decision to attend college was not a simple choice. My parents, obstacles, and…
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were taking place at my home during my childhood. When I was younger, my parents would physically fight in front of my sibling and I. The violence became so serious at the point where my father was arrested. My parents eventually divorced after this event. The event of my parents’ divorce left a mark on my transition to adulthood, and it caused a social separation in my family. My parents went to court and spent thousands of dollars fighting over custody of their children. My parents constantly would…
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it or not, which often has to deal with couples who want to divorce. It is a reality that divorce is a difficult and very painful situation for the couple, but it is likely worse for the children. Statistically speaking, the number of children affected by divorce since 1951 until 1979 has increased significantly year after year. According to the Bureau of the Census, from 1990 to 2007 four of every 10 first-time marriages ended in divorce. When adults get divorced, they lose a relationship, their…
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Effects of Divorce Melissa Moore University of Illinois at Chicago Introduction: “Children with divorced parents often suffer emotional scars that last a lifetime and have trouble with their own intimate relationships as adults.” I read this statement and I immediately thought about myself. The divorce rate is now that 50 percent of marriages fail, divorce is something that has become common nowadays (Patrick Parkinson, 2001).” Divorce doesn’t seem to be that big of a deal today…
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