613). The. Also the quote, “His neck snapped from the backbone.”(Homer 10.16-17). Odysseus rushes his crew and causes the death of his youngest crewmate. After this loss, Odysseus knows that he cannot show such impatience again. Odysseus displays patience in Book 18 after he returns. He is met with another beggar by the name of Virus. Irus calls him out, but Odysseus wishes to be patient and wait for his time to unveil his identity. Odysseus also shows patience when he talks with his wife. He could unveil himself, but knows that it is not the right time. He should instead wait for the contest. “Friends, how can an old man, worn down with pain, stand up to a young buck?” (Homer 18. 59-60). Odysseus is attempting to defuse the situation, as he does not want to fight. Odysseus has learned patience as well as restraint. He wishes to be patient until the time is right to reveal himself. He does not see it fit to do the unveiling at the moment. “Get off the porch, you old goat, before I haul you off by the leg. Homer 18, 12-13. Odysseus has been insulted by Irus. Odysseus shows patience by trying to claim that he is an old man who does not want to