1. How many children do you have? What are their ages?
• The mother’s response was: “I have one child and two step children ages 5 and 10- years-old”.
• The father’s response was: “I have three children total, “my eldest son who is 10-years-old, my daughter who is 5-years-old and my youngest son who is 7 months old”.
2. How did you feel when you first knew you were going to be a parent?
• The mother’s response:” I was excited and surprised since this would be my first child and my partner and I were trying to conceive for a few years”.
• The father’s response: “I was over joyed and anxious …show more content…
Do you believe you were adequately prepared to be a parent? Please explain?
• The mother’s response: “Yes, because I believe I was in the perfect mature age of 29 years of age to understand the responsibilities. I also had a lot of positive support and a great partner for help”.
• The father’s response: “Yes, because I believe I had good previous experience with my first two children from my first marriage and I believe I am in a more mature age to be a parent this time around”.
4. Where did most of your information about parenting come from? What are some resources you have used to become a better parent?
• The mother’s response was: “Most of my information on parenting comes direct from relatives and friends, but some resources I use to become a better parent are trough my experience and learning on try and go foundation, research, and asking for help when I need it”.
• The father’s response was: “My parenting information comes from relatives mostly, but I do ask questions constantly or research books and other …show more content…
• The father’s response: “One piece of advice I would give would be to be patient with yourself and your partner because both of you have your child best interest and parenthood will not always be perfect, so patience will be key”.
Overall, I learned that infants are very vulnerable human-beings that need constant love and care and that although parenthood can be challenging having a healthy relationship can empower the process. Three things that I learned about this specific family was that they all have a strong support system, their key instrument for parenthood is patience, which probably lead to the finally thing I learned about this family and that is that communication was a big factor in this family’s parenthood journey and the parents always had the child interest above all other priorities. A few things that I would suggest however to support this specific family is some counselor classes to talk about some fears they experience or some mommy/daddy and me classes to bond with the child to build the confidence that their child is a healthy individual who is growing up with great development and I would offer some child development workshops if they are interested to gather information on infants since they seemed interesting in researching. I would also offer constant reassurance and books on certain topics they would like to learn more