Personal Narrative: I Prepared For A Loss

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No one cares to think about life altering events in which they have not controlled; I am no exception. This is especially true when you lose a loved one. Passing of people occurs every day and leave loved ones behind to grief the loss. Not unique in that regard, I am not only person to ever suffer a loss such as this. I was certainly not prepared for the loss of my mother or facing the future without her. Looking back on the situation, there was nothing to prepare for; she was only fifty-one years old. My family knew her health was not the best; however, the diagnosed health problems were not what killed her. Her untimely death was devastating because it occurred without warning or preparation. Just like that – gone forever. The …show more content…
Obviously, her health was not the best; although manageable. In the days leading up to the visit to the hospital, she had not been feeling great. During a phone conversation with her, she mentioned having some pain under rib-cage; however, she did not know what was causing her discomfort. Later that night, my father rushed her to the emergency room because she was having difficulty breathing. After arriving at the hospital, staff examined immediately admitted her due to lack of oxygen in her blood stream. Because of the oxygen level in her body, her lips were blue and her skin appeared pale and pasty. Bypassing a regular room, the nurses admitted her directly into the intensive care unit. Several days after being in the intensive care unit, we learned she was suffering from pancreatitis; this was a result of unsuccessful passing a gallstone which lodged and blocked the opening of her pancreas. As I understood it, the blocked duct had already caused irreversible damage to her pancreas. The doctors induced a coma, and then performed a few different surgeries; however, nothing seemed to work and her condition worsened. Contracting Staphylococcal infection is common in situations such as this, as she was no different. The infection complicated matters and seemed to be the point of no return. There was nothing else to do; after a 14 day hospital stay, she