In Chinese, jūnzǐ means “lord's son”. It is a term that is frequently interpreted to mean gentleman or great person. Confucius uses this term in his works to illustrate the ideal man. One who is wise or a sage has the ideal personality in Confucianism. Many believe that it is hard to become one, however. It is taught in Confucianism that it is possibly for anyone to achieve junzi. The junzi has many characteristics. He can be poor, he acts before he speaks, and he exemplifies loyalty, obedience and wisdom. One who is junzi can rely on himself for discipline. The first virtue, Ren, is essential in becoming a junzi. Confucius believed in establishing good relationships. Such relationships include a child respecting their parents and teachers. Another example is an elder providing wisdom and setting a good example for those younger than them. This concept is still present today in cultures throughout East