When considering the discussion of senior care helpers or even a senior care community, the most important thing to keep in mind is why your are having the conversation. Honesty is the best policy, but honesty tempered with love and compassion. It is not easy for anybody to realize they are not as independent as they once were. Depending on the amount of lost independence, the conversation may take many forms.
Remember that the whole purpose of senior care is to provide support and comfort to your senior loved one. Think about what it is that makes them comfortable and happy. What are the concerns that your loved one has. The conversation should not be about you, but about the positive aspects of helping them maintain their independence and have an easier …show more content…
Take the time to do your research. Don't just research care options, but research your loved one's feelings. When the information is gathered over a span of time they will not feel like the subject of an inquisition.
Conversation. Seniors are not children and should not be treated as such. They have opinions which should be valued. Try not to come in with a marketing plan, but seek to engage in an honest discussion. Share with your loved one what you have observed and what your thoughts are. Let them know that you are talking to them out of love and concern not out of any hidden motive or agenda.
Time. Don't wait until something serious happens before discussion options. Have a plan of action in place. Most times, seniors will want to know that things are lined up and there is a contingency plan. Most seniors have a will, but many times they simply have not thought about senior care options.
Independence. The ultimate goal is to lengthen the amount of time your loved one can maintain their own independence. Senior care services are simply there to support them, not to hinder, restrict, or detract from their life. The more this is stressed, the