We like to label others, and assume things based on our observations and interactions with them. This is natural for all humans to do since we have to make assumptions to distinguish between what is right or wrong. However, most of the time, we let these observations or rumors about other people taint our perceptions of them before truly getting to know them. And we end up basing our judgements on just that and never getting to know them fully.
I think judging is somewhat a comfort factor for us, since it gives us a sense of how to perceive and act towards someone. We formulate a significant description of a person, and act accordingly to that definition. It is a kind of …show more content…
However, over the years I’ve come to realize what they meant. For example, it’s unlikely that a Victoria’s Secret model is going to walk around making fun of other people’s weight. It’s unlikely that someone who is satisfied and confident with their speech is going to make fun of other people’s speeches. And it’s unlikely that someone who is smart will go out of their way to justify their intelligence and pick on other people for being less smart. We are only judgemental towards each other because we use each other as a projection pad out of our own perceived