Overcoming Obstacles

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As the saying goes you have to live to learn. As teenagers it is hard to understand life, you may face many obstacles and they will either make you or break you. Challenges and obstacles will happen and they must be turned into positive advantages. Having so much negativity in my life already, I had to take the challenge of becoming an independent woman after a major incident with my mother. Having parents who are separated is most of the time hard to deal with. My father is a very extraordinary, hardworking man in everything he sets his mind to. My father works as a nationwide truck driver so he is hardly ever home, while my mother works as a provider for elderly people. Several years ago, my mother somehow became extremely distant, then she left my father for another man. My father was then devastated and became depressed for some time after my mother left him. By my mother leaving my father our whole family suffered. She said hurtful things to me that I will never forget so ever since then things with my mother and I have not been the same. About a year passed and my father was still very depressed. His depression became very affective towards all of us. We …show more content…
Fights ensued constantly between my mother and I about trivial things. Screaming and yelling grew each and every day until one day we both could not just take each other and I eventually moved out of my sister’s home. My family and I went from being the happiest to the most depressed. After I moved out I had several conversations with friends and relatives over the situation and knew it wasn’t the correct thing to do, but sometimes doing the correct thing may become into a even worse situation and staying around my mother with both having so much anger was not going to end well. It killed me to see my father saddened by the situation, but I told him me leaving was going to be